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writes: Dear Cupid...I am pleased to firstly announce and thank you for taking the time to read this email. Me and this guy have been friends for about nearly one year, and as we have gotten to know each other, I have come to like him and grow strong feelings for him. He is 3 years older than me and I think that this age gap might be a problem for him but not me. I have actually lost contact with him. I have sms'd and emailed him but he is not responding. I think when we come into contact with him I would like to let him know that I like him... but that is what I need help from you with. How can I tell him how I feel wihtout scaring him away? Please reply as soon as possible... this is a really important matter. Reply to this Question
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (28 May 2006):
 How old are you and how old is this friend of yours?
The fact that he is not contacting you via text or email could mean that he has changed his number or email address or it could mean that he doesn't want to chat.
If you are good friends then can you contact him by phone and ask him if anything is up as you have tried to reach him but no joy.
Go in light, not full on at the moment until you know whether he is interested in you or if you find out whether he is already seeing someone as that could be very embarrassing for you and you need to try and protect your feelings right now.
Age differences can be an issue when you are younger but are less important as you get over 20 etc so it does really depend on what age you both are.
Do you live close to one another?
Let me know some of the answers above and I will try and help as much as I can OK.
BFN
Country Woman
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