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writes:me and my female friend admitted we liked each other a month ago but we didn't do anything after wards nor have we talked about it. now things have gone back to normal whenever we are alone it gets a bit awkward as in we have nothing to say. I want to take things slow with her but i also want her to know that still like her in a subtle way cos i don't want to scare her away by being overly romantic like touching her nor do i want to seem disinterested.shes a shy muslim girl so i know she would prefer a more quiet approach to dating
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reader, crazychick +, writes (24 October 2009):
 Neither of you has made a move, but the hard parts over... you like her, and you already know that she likes you too. You are friends already so you can talk, and no, touching her or leaning in for a kiss probably wouldn't be the way to go as you both feel awkward because you're in limbo.You should ask this girl out on a proper date, go for a meal (dont go to the cinema as you'll sit there in silence). But make sure she knows it is a proper date and not just a friend thing. At the end of the night, dont push things, but ask her out again, if she enjoyed herself she'll agree, if it was just to awkward at least you can stay friends. Take her lead on the night, if she looks a bit awkward, tell a few jokes, ask her what she wants to do and don't take it past a kiss on your first date. Make sure you're both comfortable before you take it further or you could ruin your friendship. Hope this helps :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 October 2009):
Just talk to her and listen to her. If she's shy, be kind, be understanding and listen to what she has to say. Really get to know her, and let her know you. That's the best thing to do. Good luck.
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