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writes:Okay, so I have offered to do a strip tease for my man, I know he's very attracted to me as we often talk about our intense chemistry howeve this does not seem to be comfort enough for me!I know I'm in good shape but the thought of dancing alone as entertainment somehow scares me! I want to do this as I'm a 'feel the fear and do it anyway' kind of person.My question is 1) how do I do it?!!And 2) how do I come across as really confident?Thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe've been together 3 years and I'm 18, were totally open with each other. We've tried loads of stuff, just notthis so want to get it on ;) :p
I can't decide whether music is a good idea as I like stuff like the pixies haha
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reader, Patriot  +, writes (23 April 2011):
Don't bother trying to be confident. Innocence is sexy, too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): Wear black. Take a belly dancing class. But to become more confident in oneself you need to depend on yourself more and more and less and less on everyone else. Its simple a choice between being externally controlled or internally controlled. My advice would be find some random thing that you've always wanted to do and do it. Start a interest in something and begin to watch how you make progress in it. As humans we can literally do anything we put are minds to so put your mind on something. Develop self discipline and the rest will come. Don't worry about coming across as confident. Just be it and be yourself.
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reader, lakers_lover09 +, writes (23 April 2011):
Ur thinkin to much my friend. He is attracted to u point blank so think nothing more than he knows u r the sexiest being on earth. Men love a guy who knowa ahe is sexy! Thats y we often get in trouble with promiscuous women.
1. Tell em to come over or wait til he gets home..leave a npte at the door (somethin sexy) have the room u will use set perfection. A simple chair in the middle of the room with handcuffs hanging on the arm or somethin to get em excitrd them BAM u walk in in a trench coat push him into the seat and do ur thing!
2.if u want to come off a confident bite ur lip a lil..look into hos eyes andut on a sexxy smile. Even if u dnt believe itt HE WILL. O and of course know tht u r sexy in his eyes. U kno for a fact he will love wat he seeees and this may ij mprove ur confidence. Have fun and dont tie the handcuffs too tight :)
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reader, MamaBear +, writes (23 April 2011):
I suggest you wait on this until you feel more comfortable. You did not say how long you two have gone together. But, why is it necessary to strip when you are not comfortable? This is nuts! And, would he enjoy this?
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