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*amuel1
writes: This is a follow-up to a question I posted earlier this month. The girl I have fancied for a year stillhas a boyfriend, but I've now realised that I LOVE HER. I'm dertermined to chat her up and tell her my feelings but when I see her, I lose my bottle. OnceI've sat down with her I'll be fine because I'm a very good conversationalist.How can I force myself to approach her? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): How can you "love" someone you don't know all that well. I think you have become infatuated and obsessed with this girl and you are in danger of making a complete fool of yourself by declaring your "love". Please leave well alone unless you are sure she has split up with her boyfriend.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (23 September 2007):
She has a boyfriend!!
If you told her how you felt it could even make things worse for you and her as im sure that after having a boyfriend for a long time, she's not going to break up with him just because you like her too. Love is a pretty strong word though, are you sure?
Ok, im in a simlier situation myself. I've been 'in love' with a boy for over a year now, but i know nothing would ever happen because he's told me, so i'm not going to do anything about it.
Personaaly i wouldn't approach her, only because she has a bf.
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