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writes: This girl is sending me signals..But I've never met her, was supposed to hangout but never did and now I dont know how to approach her. I've only talked to her through the computer and she hasn't been dating but she wants to date.I really like her can someone please help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, theOC +, writes (24 June 2008):
I think that gabberjackranch says it best when she said to "just ask." I've met many people from online before for friends and dating. The only way to meet is to be the one to ask and set up something. If your conversations are as well as they should be, I don't think it should be a problem. But please do be careful. Someone online you've never met before is a scary thought.
On approaching her, figure out what you want to do and which day and just ask her casually.
"What are you doing Friday?"
"Do you want to meet up for ______."
Like gabber said, if she says no, then oh well. It's better to know that you've tried and failed rather than not to have tried at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Sweet Pea, Just ask....the worst she can say is no. "Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained." I pray that all will end well. Please know that I am praying for you and your Lovely Lady Friend.
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