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writes:I have had a long time friend who is a beautiful deaf woman. Despite being deaf she still looks normal and works at a professional job. We have been dating for a little while. We enjoy spending time together and doing things like watching movies with subtitles, walking, hiking, cooking together, and other activities. She has been teaching me sign language which has been fun. Sometime we communicate through writing words or drawing pictures. We often greet each other with hugs and kisses. She kisses quite nice and she is quite attractive. I would like to create more intimacy with her and become closer. Judging from her facial expressing I think that she may want this as well. Would sex be a way to bring us closer and establish intimacy? She is a normal woman except she is deaf. I assume that she could enjoy sex despite the fact that she can?t hear. I assume that it is natural for me to want to become closer and more intimate and make love to with her. How could I bring up the subject of sex to her and get her feelings about it? How can I let her know that I think she is sexy, attractive, and that I would like for us to become closer, or intimate, and become lovers?If we do end up making love/ having sex at some point what information do you have about sex with a deaf woman? I would guess that touching, body language, and non-verbal expression would be important. Would extended foreplay be important to a deaf woman? She is use to taking the lead to create how own opportunities, what advice do you have for getting her to receive pleasure? What advice do you have about her communicating her desires to me and visa versa in bed? Are there recommended sex positions to use with a deaf partner? I would guess that positions that would allow for her hands to be free and her face to be visible would be important. Of those could you recommend a few? How could I make love making/ having sex an enjoyable and satisfying experience for her? I want to show her that I love a care about her. It may be fun for us to learn sexual sign language together. I don?t think she know about that. It does not seem as common as other expressing. What sexual sign language resources are available?
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reader, Dipsydoodlenoodle  +, writes (17 September 2008):
Ok,
“Despite being deaf she still looks normal and works at a professional job”
“She is a normal woman except she is deaf. I assume that she could enjoy sex despite the fact that she can’t hear”
“Would extended foreplay be important to a deaf woman?”
“Are there recommended sex positions to use with a deaf partner?”
I’m sorry here but just because she is deaf does not mean she shouldn’t look normal or work a professional job. Why shouldn’t she be able to enjoy sex because she is deaf, she can’t hear she’s not stupid. Just because she is deaf doesn’t mean that she would like extended foreplay, she is after all just a normal woman, all women like different things if they can or cannot hear.
As for the last quote I’ve got from your question, she’s only deaf I wouldn’t have though that you would need a specific position for her, after all she is a NORMAL woman. She may prefer positions where she can see you but then she might like doggy style etc.
I know you are obviously interested but just the way you phrased your questions is quite disrespectful to her, she is deaf it’s not an illness like it appeared you had in your questions. Being deaf makes her no different to ANY other woman in the world, except that you need to sign to her to talk, sign language is just another language, like learning French to be able to speak to the woman you love. It’s the same principle. Treat her like a normal woman, learn sign language, get her to teach you…the only difference between the woman in question is that she can’t hear, otherwise treat her no different.
Good luck with it.
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reader, zymurgy  +, writes (24 August 2008):
Ok, that answer about whispering sweet nothings made me LOL
I can't help with the communications part, but as for positions, this site has more then a few interesting ideas:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Don't bother whispering sweet nothings in her ear :p
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