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writes: Theres this guy I like, in my friendship group, but I havent known him for very long. Sometimes we all hang out together but we've never been properly alone. He's nice and he gives me hugs, and I *think* he's flirted with me once or twice... But when we talk online, he never says anything much. It's irritating because it seems like he doesn't want to talk to me.He treats me and my friend in pretty much the same way, so maybe he *likes* her? We haven't talked to eachother about it because well, what if SHE likes this guy too?HELP!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 Ok, first the online thing; some people dont talk alot online. I am like you, I find it really irriatating but some people just come online, sign in and do other things. I would not read too much into that.
You say you think he flirted, what did he do or say that made you think that way? It sounds likely that the hugs could be a friendship thing if he does them to your friend too. Maybe you should test the water with your friend, maybe ask her what she thinks of him subtly and see where it gets you. At least that way you will know if she is interested.
Maybe you could find out from somebody else (trustworthy so they wont tell him) if he maybe interested? Hope that helps.
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