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writes:Hi everyone I am in a very confusing situation I have know this man nearly 2 years now I know he likes me but he is always blowing hot and cold all the time it has been like this since I met him like for instance I see him sometimes he won't speak to me other times like the other day he was in his car he went past beeping at me loads of times and turned at the roundabout to stop at the side of the road to talk to me he said he would come round that day but he didn't turn up I would like us to be together I have tried playing it cool which works a bit any ideas what I can do thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2012): Next time I would suggest going for a drink or meeting up. If he doesn't take up the offer forget him. You can only do so much. If, given the opportunity, he doesn't respond, don't bother with him.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (3 August 2012):
 I had a man who was supposed to be my boyfriend do this to me. I finally ended up deciding it was emotional abuse, or else he was just completely clueless when it came to how to be a decent human being. On the other hand, I think some men (in particular)are sometimes completely in their own world and have tunnel vision, especially if they are at work or going to work. I have passed some of my male co-workers in hallways and we were the only two people there and later said I saw them and they were like "When?". At first I thought one in particular was messing with me, but he seemed sincere and never treats me disrespectfully at other times.
I agree that if you like him, why not ask him out for coffee or lunch or something? It can't hurt.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (3 August 2012):
 Hi there
Exactly how do you know he likes you? Has he asked you out on a date yet? Has he told you he likes you? Why does he ignore you? Did he apologise for not turning up? Is he single?
Why not just ask HIM out on a date,if he says no, you know to move on,if he says yes, well, happy days. Good luck x
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