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writes:My boyfriend is a senior in high school and his cousin is a junior. We are all in the same school. The cousin (chris) has a girlfriend who is a freshman. I am a sophmore..me and the girlfriend used to be close friends about a year ago and she was soo nice and kind. Groups changed and now friends are diferent but we were on good terms like a smile now and then. she is still friends with 2 girls in my grade but has changed drastically into almost..a skank. She recently came back from a cruise and told one of the girls that she cheated on chris..and did more then hook up. the girl in my grade knew i was dating his cousin and decided to bring it up to me. for a while now there had been word of the girlfriend not even having feelings for chris anymore but not breaking up with him to keep her "high status". any way i am possitive that she cheated on him because those 2 girls would never lie..but chris is such a good guy that they knew he had to found out..they felt so bad for him by hiding this secret for her. I told my boyfriend and he told his cousin being that they are close. chris was upset and called his girlfriend and she denied the hole thing..the interesting part was that she wasnt even upset that someone "lied" and told chirs that when really it is the truth. all she said was who told u who told u!!! its not true who told u...she wasnt even saying i love you i would never do that. Chris and i talked and i gave him my oppinion on how i 100 percent know and think it is true...he said hes going to try and believe her for now but i know what i told him made him seriously think about things... i could tell.a bunch of people know it is true and chris is such a great guy..i really want to find a way to get chris to find out that she really did cheat on him. the guy she hooked up with and stuff was from a cruise so hes not in our school or anything which makes it more difficult...i just need a way to help him see the truth because he deserves someone much better then that..he would never do that to anyone.pleasee give me ur advice asapxo always and and forever
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (6 March 2008):
 You acted out of concern for Chris and have now planted the seed in his mind but now it's up to him what he does with the information. Let him make his own decisions now and leave well alone, you've alerted him to the situation but I would leave it at that and get on with your own relationship now. If Chris wants to speak to you about it or ask your advice then I'm sure he'll come back to you.
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reader, alwaysndforever +, writes (6 March 2008):
alwaysndforever is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI asked for advice not for a bitchy come back - I wasnt gossiping. I didn't tell any one anything except chris to help him out. k thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): Do you really want some advice?
Stop gossiping. Mind your own business.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (6 March 2008):
 I know you feel that you want to help your friend Chris in this situation, which i think its really great. You've voiced your opinion about his girlfriend, what you think she did and what you think she like but you don't have an actually prove of her cheating. I think as a friend you should just stand by Chris's descion as its not your life it affects it's he's. You should just support him in his choice, even if it could be the wrong one, if he wants to forgive or not believe that she cheated that's his right.
and one more thing someone just saying i love you, i would never cheat doesn't mean they haven't.
Good luck
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