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36-40,
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writes:It's very early on in mine and my girlfriends relationship (I'm 19, she's 18) We've been together a week. Every couple of nights we have gone out, talked, had fun and made out. I think we're having fun together, but I'm just not sure if anything can develop between us. It isn't because I don't want it to. It's because of our "timetables" so to speak. She works weekdays and has the weekend off, whereas I work 3 days a week and weekends. It just seems like we'll struggle to have any time alone. She's quite shy, and I believe she'd be more comfortable if we were somewhere alone, but where can this alone time come from?How can a relationship develop when we have little time together? What can we do?
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (19 January 2008):
As long as you have the evening free, what more do you need. A few nights a week is all you need. It will keep it more exciting, it gets a little boring when you see them too much. Anyway closeness isnt only based on time. I have felt closer to people ive talked to for an hour compared to people ive known for years. As long as you make good use of the time you had (constantly making memories) then youre fine
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): I think you are whittling too soon. The relationship hasnt really even got started and you are worried about how and when. Love will conquer all, if it is meant to, so stop get anxious about these things now and take each day as it come. Enjoy each moment and the rest will fall into place.
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