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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, im a bit fed up tbh, i admit i do get boys attention but its always for one thing. there have been 3 boys, where we met up and everything and later found out they had a gf. and then the others text met up get want they want and then ony call went they want it again. i met this boy a few months back 1st we texted for a while and then stopped and have since started txting again, we have met up a few time and got on really well. i do really like this guy so asked him what he wanted, and he said he just wanted abit of fun until he gets "love struck again" i then asked if he has been meeting anyone else and he said he was and they was still texting but it was nothing serious. i then asked if it was going to get serious and he replied ill let you know asap if it does. i dont have nothing against him for doing this as he is single and can text or meet other girls, but its getting to me as i feel im the other girl again. i do like this guy but feel he only texts when he wants as when i text him i mostly always never get a reply until a couple of days later. i dont know what to do should i end it and just face this boy is taking me for a joke, and that im not goin to find someone that takes me seriously or what?
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reader, Miamine +, writes (11 November 2011):
 There is a book called "The Rules", you need a copy of that. It shows you how to act in the old ways, and get a guy to respect you even though your not having sex.
There is nothing wrong with a little bit of sex. But if you want to have a committed relationship you need to hold back on sex. Make sure the next guy takes you out, holds your hand and waits a while. Don't have sex with a guy until your sure that he likes you outside of bed.
Learn to say no and wait. The guys will take you more serious. At the moment, your actions are saying your a girl who likes "a little bit of fun" and they can sex you and walk away.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Try get to know a guy the "old fashioned" way. As in sp-end time with him, get to know him by talking, not just texting.
And honestly, yes I would end it, if you aren't looking for some " fun" then end it. He is NOT looking for a GF or anything serious.
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