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*ish mash
writes:Guy troubble! :sThere is this guy I really fancy in my school but I don't know if he fancys me!! We are friends and he is in some of my classes! When ever he sees me in thos classes I catch him at the corner of my eye looking at me, if he talks to me it will always be about himself or his friends (so I don't know weva that is him being nervus?), and he brings up the fact he has no girlfriend, he makes alot of eye contact! When we are out of lessons and he passes me he will always smile and say hi and I will do the same back! I know this question is asked regularly and I have been on other peoples q's but just wanted to know anymore signs or tops etc....!I really would love to tell him that I fancy him but I have very low self esteem and find it hard to tell people what I think just incase they don't like what I say!Please help!Mish Mash xxxx
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reader, Mish mash +, writes (16 May 2010):
Mish mash is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, I have tryd this.... I got so close to asking him and then I just freezed! :S some of my friends know that I fancy him but none of them are friends with him! One of my other friends however does know him and dropped very big hints that I fancy him via bebo.... And he said he doesn't fancy me... They arnt great friends and the guy who spoke to him spreads rumours around our school so I don't know wheather he said this to stop it getting around the school (if he does fancy me) or if he realy doesn't.... The guy I fancy also has bad self esteem so he may also find it hard to say to me if he likes me or not! :S
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 It does sound like he`s interested. The easiest thing would be to just ask him but I know that can be difficult so if you can`t find the courage to do this try to drop major hints. If you catch him looking at you look back and give a smile, or get close to him if you see you have the oppertunity.
There`s nothing to worry about if you ask him. The worst he would say is no and then life goes on but if you don`t ask you may be left with the `question of what could have happened.
Good luck and I'm sure he'll be glad you asked because he's probably in the same position you are.
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