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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and boyfriend started seeing each other in year 7. It was really fun we were always talking and laughing where in yr 10 now and i feel like hes got bored of me he just want to kiss all the time and wont let me see my really good friends.I need to know how to tell him that i dont like where things are going and i think we should not see each other; the only thing is he gets agressive, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): dump him and find you a new man and have your friends there when you tell him its over that way he cant be aggressive towards you
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): Well If you know that you are not happy with him leave him, he can't hurt you because it's against the law, and if he even tries to hit you or put his hands on you then all that kissing and those years you've been together dont mean anything to him.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (19 February 2008):
 It's never easy to break up with someone, especially when you've been together a while. Here's a link that should help you tell him that you want to call it a day and break up with him with sensitivity.
http://www.wikihow.com/Break-up-With-Someone-Using-Style-and-Sensitivity
~Eve~
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reader, TeenMummy +, writes (19 February 2008):
 whatever you do dont tell him over text, email, phone call. you have to do it face to face. if you dont tell him to his face, it will be harder for him to accept. and you will show him that even though you dont want to be with him anymore you still have respect for him. respect is everything, just remember his has feelings too, think about it before you talk to him, put yourself in his shoes.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 Just tell him in plain simple English and he will understand. No hints or beat about the bush .
Be direct.
If he touchs you , tell your parents or your teachers.
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reader, ifsa +, writes (18 February 2008):
 ok your in a tight situation here maby u can tell him on msn or by texting him that u need some time to think about him and your relationship good luck
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reader, Dr Hearme +, writes (18 February 2008):
Dear Anonymous,Firstly there is no way on earth you should have to put up with an agressive lad! If there is even the smallest chance he could hurt you for any reason, you are better off out of it.Secondly, the best advice i can give you when it comes to relationships, is to try and be upfront and honest as much as you can.It will stand you in good stead in the future if you remember this. If you don't want to see him anymore tell him, and be honest about the reasons why. Do it in person, but with someone else around. Can you invite him to your house with family around, or do it with a friend with you?You are also too young to let a boyfriend dictate to you who you do and don't see, live your life, enjoy spending time with your friends, have fun, and prepare for your future. Plenty of tinme for men later on.Good luck!
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