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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi all. HELP. 1.dated a guy from work.2.broke up with him cos he was no good. 3. he nearly got me the sack,he sent my manager evidence that i hated her after she bullied me. 5.he made sure my life became hell in my workplace despite the fact he left.6.He knew people in orange, so had my emails and call tapped.7.he teamed up with a a group of underground people who threatened me.8.i went of sick at work due to harassment cos of him.9.took me two years to get well, went back to work because of tupee transfer.10.bullied there too cos he married a woman who was above me.11.the whole team harasssed an threatened me.12.Hr was in on it, cos they had to cut costs.13 i brought the police in cos they gsngstalked me,broke into my home, bragged about it at work.14 Went off sick in December cos they got peeps to follow me home, threaten me.15.Im scared,there still tryin to hurt me,police not helping.16, i have to have a meeting with hr WHO KNOWS wat happened but playing dumb.so gonna discipline me for being off sick with stress at work. 17, there still trakin me down to hurt me, i got no support.18 HOW THE HELL CAN I STAY STRONG. 19.Ive gained 4 pounds and look like hell.I look awful,his friends and team put naked pics on internet, making money out of me.20.can someone please tell me i'm gonna get through this i can't take anymore....
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 May 2010):
You'll be fine, but you need to act now. Get a lawyer, get all the proof you can and sue the company, then also go the police and present the proof, if they do nothing then launch a private prosecution. And if all that fails, this may sound stupid, but sell your story to a paper. The moment it's out in the open, everyone who has failed you gets put in the light and you get to blame everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): 6. Complain to Orange.16. Either call in the union or leave the job.18. Ask the doctor for some counselling; they can refer you free.19. Don't worry about your appearance for now.Sorry I haven't the answers to the others but hopefully this will be a start. I don't know your situation but if you can possible change jobs and move home, or to live with friends or relatives (if you aren't already), this may help.
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