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*upcake
writes:What do you do if you suspect your boyfriend who you have a perfect relationship has cheated... but they swear on everything they didnt? How do you deal with this? I cant see him doing it, but I cant help but continuisly wondering 'what if' even tho he has swore he has never done such a thing. Reply to this Question
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reader, Cupcake +, writes (24 September 2007):
Cupcake is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you very much for you responses. His ex girlfriend who he lied about talking to, and i found out and he came clean and admited speaking with her and started to cry telling me hes sorry and didnt tell me because he didnt want me to think it was more then it was and he didnt want to hurt me or have me leave... Shes the one who said he was sleeping with her, but shes also crazy, she had hacked into his email and sent me emails saying "im cheating onyou" and i would get them while he was sitting right beside me. She has wanted him back for a long time, and when she found out we were buying a house together is when she told me all of this. He swears he never once seen her but that he did speak to her on occasion, but ended them talking when she started to ask if they could get back together. The man just bought a house and car with me, i know hes commited to me, but since he lied once it just scares me. I have a HUGE fear of being cheated on as its happened to me once before. I really cant see him doing that tho. How do I get this out of my head?
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (23 September 2007):
 What evidence do you have to support what you are saying? If this boy says he's not cheating, then believe him, making a relationship work you need to have trust within each other. Just keep telling yourself that he's with you, no one else, he wants you, no one else. Just please trust him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): if you keep "assuming" that he is cheating, then he WILL!! what is he doing that makes you have any doubt?
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