A
female
age
36-40,
*hoez
writes:How do I flirt with this guy.G and I went on a great date where we had a lot of chemistry. Since then he has had relatives in town and he's overseas at the moment and has not been msging me often. We kinda said we both wanna go on a trip together which I had asked him about it several times. He keeps saying that he really wants to go on the trip, he day dreams about it etc but he does not really seem to commit to any dates. He replies when I msg him but no pro-active messages. Sure I get it that he's busy with relatives and traveling etc, and he did say it is complicated his end to commit to the dates. He did say maybe mid jan, but I kinda feel it leaves me hanging more!So, today I texted him, and his reply was that it is so cold now and going on a trip will be awesome. It's the same, bait but no commitment. He has a reputation of being a player but we do have great chemistry.I did not reply after that. Can someone shed some light, and advice on how I can reply back to bait and flirt?
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reader, Abella +, writes (3 January 2013):
 Maybe you just need to learn the Ground rules a Player follows and replicate the female version.
Mirroring a Players behaviour just might net you a player. But for how long? If he's a player?
here is the article from AnonymousMale1 with a bonus article with more of his wisdom. he has other good articles in his column too.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/10-situations-that-scream-hes-a-player.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-most-women-are-attracted-to-bad-men.html
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 January 2013):
 why do you want to play and flirt with a man who is a known player and will probably hurt you in the long run?
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (3 January 2013):
 Relax. Men don't plan things that far in advance. He's busy. He's given you a clue when he says "maybe mid-January".
When you say he has a reputation as a player what do you mean? He dates women? Or he uses women?
Is he a gentleman? Or a jack-the-lad?
You girls know how to bait and flirt... "thinking about you", "where shall we go on our trip?"
that sort of thing.
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