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30-35,
*ul1993
writes:Well this question is a little different to what i'd usually seek help for...so bare with me as im a little nervous haha. My sex life is that of a healthy and enjoyable one. But with one flaw. Me. I SUCK in the bedroom! My boyfriend tells me that im good when i try and make the effort but that is very rare. He likes is when im ontop of him in the cowgirl position but i on the other hand HATE it. I cant feel near as much as i can when he does the movement, i cant go as fast or as deep as need to get off. And i feel terrible, he likes it and he can finish in a few minutes if i do it, but since im so slow and i cant get him as deep it does nothing for me and i just get so tired so quickly and then i have to stop which then frustrates him because he was close. Does anybody have any tips they can share with me? How i could possibly make it a little more exciting for myself? I seem to just be a huge drag in the bedroom as i am nowhere near as good as him. Hes had alot more experience in the bedroom as he was my first. I'd be greatfull if anybody could help. Thanks a bunch xx
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 Try grinding your hips back and forth if you're on top, rather than just moving your body up and down. Cowgirl should be a position where you can control the depth, and usually it shouldn't be too hard to go deep. Your clitoris should also get some stimulation from this as well, as it will be rubbing against his abdomen.
You could also get him to hold your hips if you get tired and he can then do the work.
Just remember.. keep it safe! Always use a condom and/or another form of contraceptive.
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