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30-35,
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writes: Hey, i've been talking to this girl for like 5 weeks now over the internet, and we got to know each other really well, and she fancies me and i fancy her, so i want to make a shot at it, but...shes got a boy friend.i know i need to wait but is there anything i can do to persude her the love of her life is me and not him!? I'm meeting her this weekend as well.
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reader, lexie +, writes (13 March 2007):
Well just hang in their dont try to push her into what she dosent like doing.. let her be the chooser okay take from me ive been there....
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (12 March 2007):
Haha Dr Reality Check, all you needed to do was post your name on this and it would've been the perfect advice right there:-P I second what Malyce Synn said
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reader, Dr. Reality Check +, writes (12 March 2007):
You're the love of her life and you've never even met? Slooooow down. You're in your early teens and there is very little chance you'll be together down this line. This time in your life isnt about looking for someone to marry, it's about getting experience. You are still just a kid. If she really fancies you she will break up with this guy, if not she's totally yanking your chain. I have the feeling it's the latter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): And you aren't the love of her life...you're just kidlets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): You shouldn't meet with a girl who is already committed. You do this and it teaches you it's okay to go after any woman you want and eventually, at an older age, you will run after married women and unavailable women.
Stop seeing this as a challenge and how you get to win...have some self respect and tell her when you make a decision-call me.
She either wants to be with you or not.
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