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writes:So I've been bicurious for a while, but despite knowing there are plenty of lesbian/bi girls out there, I never seem to meet any. The only ones I ever notice are because they are kissing in public or holding hands (aka taken.) And I don't like the idea of falling for a girl that is straight, though it's happened. And i dread having to ask someone if they are into girls at all... seems rude even, and some people overreact like i've got a disease, ...like my first and last roommate.anyways, ideas on meeting other girls that are into girls? the only thing I know I won't do at this point is meet someone via the internetI don't go to bars/clubs because that's just not me, the majority of the friends I make are in my classes at college where I'm a junior but they are mostly straight it seems from their facebooks (and mostly married btw...so young..)
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (19 March 2013):
There is an organisation called Wild Women Vacations So google wild women vacations They specialise in affordable package holidays (Vegas, Jamaica, etc) for lesbians and bicurious women.
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reader, llifton +, writes (19 March 2013):
 Hey there. I've been out of the closet for quite some time and have found plenty of gay friends. Are you completely out of the closet? If not, then that's your first and best bet. How about gay clubs/bars? Any around your town? That's a good way to meet friends, also. When you're out of the closet, you'll find a gf or friends who ars also gay. It just takes some time. Believe it or not, to the dislike of republicans (ha), we are everywhere. You'll find us.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (19 March 2013):
 Go to the GLBT club meetings on your college campus. You have to be willing to be 'outed' of course. At the worst, bigoted friends will reveal themselves. At the best, you can have great discussions with people who love and care about you and they can introduce you to available single lesbian friends.Alternatively, find a lesbian group nearby on "meetup.com" and just start some friendships there. There are many resources available for people interested in finding other GLB or T friends.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (18 March 2013):
Well it's not like people get tattoos to declare their sexual preference. Hence the reason gay bars and the Internet are such popular places to meet people. Does your town have a gay neighborhood? Many cities do, and frequenting those areas can be fruitful (just the other day my straight brother was approached by a guy who asked him if he wanted to smoke meth and have sex). Aside from that I think most of your interactions will be of the manufactured variety, ie bars, Internet, singles groups, etc. If you want things to happen naturally, I'd suggest being slightly flirtatious or, if you're not closeted, you can always alter your appearance in such away that makes it relatively clear that you're looking to date women. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2013): Unfortunately the best way to meet other girls is to go into gay/lesbian bars, I'm also a girl who likes other girls , and unless you know some-one who know's some-one, meeting another girl can be impossible. We are like gold dust. You dont have to use the internet as such but try looking up local places in your area like events or clubs to go to? Safety first. Im from the uk, so i dont know your exact situation. Not all gay girls are into bars and clubs either though, normally theres certain signs to tell if a girls gay, eye contact can be key and a little smile is all it takes.
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