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writes:What is the best way that a virgin (female) can masturbate....i am SO totally embarrassed...but i have been getting these urges...So...please help :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): All good advice so far, the key is experimentation. Play around with different strokes, fingers, etc and on different areas of your privates both inside and out. You'll know when you hit the right motion on the right spot then you just keep doing that until you orgasm.
Just remember if you're unsure whether you've had an orgasm or not or you only think you have, that means you haven't. You'll know for definite when it happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): You can start by reading an erotic story or watching a porn. Soon you'll start getting really turned on and wet, and after that you'll instinctively know what to do. Your own body will guide you and you will feel a need to rub your clit. That is how I had my first orgasm.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 Start by gently rubbing your clit and do what comes natural. You'll learn really quickly what feels good for you.
If you have a detachable shower head, I'm told those can be great for it as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): you should get a couple of pillows all ontop of eachother or something quite hard but soft, and move on it, up and down, rubbing on it, on a bed do this and think about stuff that gets you horney ;) or just watch porn whilst doing it, it gives you the best feeling ever, be patient, sometimes it might take awhile, but once you do this, you will love it and wont be able to stop! i think its better than sex in my opinion ;) i know it sounds sick... but it really does feel soo good (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): You can use your fingers. Or since 18 [ it wont be as embarrasing ] you can go to a sex store and get like a vibrator or something. Just dont use anything thats sharp or could get easily stuck inside you.
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