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writes: Me and my boyfriend have recently started having sex, but how do you know if he orgasms?I know this sounds stupid, but is he orgasming when he comes?I feel like I don't know enough about it, and haven't had enough experience, to give him what he wants. I want him to remember me as the best sex he ever had, and not just an inexperienced girl. I want him to orgasm.We regularly do have sex, though, and it's often because he tells me how horny he feels, and how he wants him 'up me' So this is a sign I'm alright.. right?Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): you know when he orgasms because you can USUALLY feel it. alternatively just ask him. lol.
yes, he is orgasming when he comes.
the best way to make him orgasm is to 'do it' as fast as you can and position where he is on top of you and get a load of sexual fantasies into his head!!!
if he really is horny, he will orgasm as long as you orgasm as well!!! lol
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 It's funny that when most people want to learn how to play a video game, they read the instructions first. But when some people decide to have sex (the process that can create another human being), they do it with information they garner from bathroom walls, or see in movies. There are books out there that show you what to do and how to do it, and precautions to take to avoid pregnancy. I suggest that if you've never had sex before and plan on starting, go to your local library and read. If your partner is a virgin also (even if he/she is not), you can read together.
BTW, I've never cum without having an orgasm. If I did, I'd be concerned. There is at least one venereal disease that's main symptom is constant discharge from the end of the penis. This is something you don't want to see.
Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 Relax and enjoy, the males seldom have orgasm problems unless they suffer from ED.
If you want to have great sex , make them come 2 or 3 times.Then they will have that out of body experience. LOL!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): Men normally orgasm when they ejaculate, although one is not necessary to have the other. I have always done the 2 together, but sometimes one starts slightly before the other. Like a few seconds. On very rare occasions I have had an orgasm with very little cum and then I can have another one in a few minutes, with the full load. I wish I could always do that, but I just enjoy it if it happens.
Perhaps someone who is different will answer.
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 yeah, when he comes this is him having an orgasm. Some people claim men can orgasm without coming through tantra and other nonsense, but that's all baloney if you ask me.
Anyway, don't worry, he is having an orgasm, it's all good!
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