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writes:Although i see again the man i used to date last year the relationship between us isn't perfect. Before two months we had a serious disagreement and it was dubious if we'll see each other again. It seems that we have got over this problem but i don't really feel that i can trust him completely. He behaves such that our disagreement wasn't really important and nothing has changed but i can't really forget him or feel relaxed after the incidence. I don't want to bring the subject again between us because i think it will bring another disappointment. However how can improve the things between us and get over this unlucky moment? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 There are things that cannot be settled there and then.There are no answers. You should leave those issues by the roadside.In time , it will either be solved or won't be solved even for 100 years. LOL!
A man and a woman is different . They don't see things the same way. Bear in mind what is relevant or important to you may not be to a man .It does not carry the same weight.
Don't touch those divisive or contentious issues where you cannot agree. Find the same issues that are agreeable with you two. Respect his opinions. We are not the same and he is entitled to what he thinks whether you agree with him or not. Just treat it as another perspective and don't say he is wrong.It is not right to tell people are wrong.They see things differently.
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