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writes:I joined this site last year complaining about my partners ex, she's still being a bitch, slagging me off at regular intervals and now she's taken to sending mail to my address for my partner.We've been together for 13 months now and still she gets away with it. The only bonus is that 3 of his children are now on my side and have told their mother to butt out of our life.What can i do to make her shove off permanently?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): p.s.why not also make sure you change your house phone no.so that she cant keep ringing you?tell your b/f that the only no. she needs is his mobile.thats completely fair.as for her petty ringing him and saying it was you that rang her first in the middle of the night!well if she hasnt got your no.then she will look like a right idiot wont she?after a while she should give up.best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwith thanks to the annoymous reply I got on 19th february. His ex is nothing but a jealous bitch, and has now taken to calling my house in the middle of the night, then calling him saying I did it to her. as for her finding another man to annoy, she left my partner 4 years ago for another man, but cant bear to see my ex happy, and the thought of someone loving him repulses her. She thinks I'm desperate because he's 13 years older than me, I simply love the guy to bits
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): where is your partner in all of this?has she got some sort of hold over him?if the kids are even sideing with you then she obviously has got some deep seated issues?i think you need to enrol alot more help from your b/f and tell him to make sure she backs off.his kids agree because theyre probably embarrassed by her and are sick of it.this has been going on too long just to be anger.she must have such a boring life.next time she bothers you tell her how sad she is,dont get angry stay calm and tell her how sorry you are for her that she cant move on and find another man to put up with her?p.s.tell your partner anything that looks suspect coming through the post from her is going straight back or in the bin.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (11 February 2008):
 I with Richard on this one Hun.
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reader, accused  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 Hi I agree they have kids together, there isn't a whole lot you can do about that. COMMUCATION is going to be there! But I am curious by what you said, you stated that she is now sending mail to "YOUR" address? Do you and your partner not live together? and the mail she is sending is it about the kids? If its anything to do with the children then he needs to see it, but other than that its totally uncalled for and your partner needs to address her on that issue... Keep me posted.. Best of luck......Accused
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (10 February 2008):
 Well if theyve got kids, she will still need to communicate.
Decide whether each communication is legitimate or harassment. The get solicitor to send a letter detailing the harassment, dates, times etc.
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