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writes:How do I ask my wife to use a strap-on dildo on me? I brought one for her and she didn't get it and I was afraid to tell he I wanted her to use it on me. PLease help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2015): good luck mate, but keep in there.
it took me 5 years to convince my wife to use a strapon on me. worth it, multiple orgasms, amazing, better than I expected.
but only the one time so far but she will use a vibe and blow me some times, maybe start with that. work up to the strapon
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 Oh Waz, you really are a 'cheeky' chappie aren't you?
Is there no 'end' to your wise 'cracks'? 'Butt' in saying that ~ I'm 'behind' you all the way with what you've just said.
Mr Anon,
Does your wife enjoy anal? Because if she does, then I don't see any reason why she would be against using it on you. Therefore she shouldn't be too surprised if you explain why you bought it.
Just tell her you want to be able to feel what she does, and what it is about anal sex that she enjoys so much, let her know you need to experience it for yourself.
Good luck.
BigSis
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ps. If she's not into all that stuff, you could always buy another two and use them as cricket stumps.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 if my boyfriend bought a strap on dildo and asked me to "use" it on him, i would be deeply offended and confused. im not accusing you of anything here but the first thing that would come to mind is are you gay? that is wat i would think if i was in your wife's situation. why do you want to simulate sex with a man? do you think there is a possibility that you are sexually confused or are gay? i think that you should not tell your wife you want her to use it on you as im sure it would hurt her. and i also think you need to think about why you want to have sex like that. is it just curiosity or is it more? these are the only reasons i can think of to explain this. i dont mean to sound offensive here, i just cant find any other way to say that wat you want to do essentially is have gay sex...with a woman.
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