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writes: How can I get my ex-fiance back? She said she still loves me but we haven't got back together yet.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (14 June 2006):
 Its no guarantees that you will get back together even more so now that you are moving so far away. I'm sure you love her and she loves you but experience new things and new people. You are still young. Time will tell because love never dies. For now, even though it hurts, trust me I know were your heart is, just take time, live and be young and free. If you are meant to be than you will be. Don't lose touch and don't put on pressure. Be good and Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): we split because we both are each others first true love. i'm 21 she's 19. we got together when she was 15. so we both thought we needed some seperation to make sure this was what we both wanted. i soon will be moving to georgia, she's still in illinois. so does that means we wont get back together? she said she still sees herself marring me and i feel the same. i just thought we would get back together before i moved.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (14 June 2006):
 Yeah I do agree with Martini, I mean what are the circumstances of the relationship? Did one of you cheat? Did you drift apart? Is it a long distance relationship etc etc, as Martini said, we are not psychic so we cant give advice when we dont have much to go on.
Tell me a bit more my friend and maybe I can try helping you. xXx
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reader, Smiler +, writes (14 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
Well with hardly any information in your letter but i will try my best with the little information that we have ok :o)
well as for the getting back together thing, firstly do you both think that this is wise cause if you are not both in full agreement here this is not gonna work you both have to want the same thing rather than pulling in different directions cause that will just end up in tears for you both... you two obviously must of split up for some reason, its well worth thinking about that reason and reassesing if getting back together will work... i know you did say that she said that she still loved you but sweetie you could be pinning alot of false hope on that sentance as she could of ment i love you as a friend not a partner but just may not of been to clear you know sometimes when a couple split up the one sometimes says i will always love you or i will never stop loving you this does not necessarily mean that they what to get back together but may just wanna protect your feelings from being hurt any further so i urge you to think very carefully before trying to get back something that is now over :o)
I hope my advice was able to help you babe :o) if you ever need a chat or just a friend to talk to i'm always here for you ok, I would love to hear from you again find out how things are going so don't hesitate to email me ok... Keep Smiling :o)
You Take Care X
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): I'll be a bit blunt here. It sounds naive that you would come here and ask a question with very little background information, and expect people to read your mind and tell you what to do.
That's like me saying, "I'm cooking this dish. What temperature and how much of the yellow stuff should I use to make it the right taste?"
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (14 June 2006):
 Ok, sorry to hear you are in this situation.
But the information you have provided doesn't really give us much of a guide as to what happened.
Why is she your ex? Did she end it or you? Why did it end?
In short, you can't force someone to get back so perhaps its an issue of time or resolving ongoing problems.
Please let us know more details so we can help you more accurately.
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