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writes: Hi there,I'm with my girlfriend for the last 2 years but recently since August she has been acting very strange with me. She gets angry at me for no reason and gets irritated if I try to explain something to her. At times, if I say no for something, she will speak very rudely to me or act as if I don't even exist.When I ask her, she says that I am not happy with you and I don't love you anymore, when both of us know that I have stood by her every time and I can't think of anything that I have done wrong in our relationship.She says to me that I can't be with you anymore and I just want to be alone... That's it.I love her a lot and I have been in pain for the last couple of days. Pls help me in this regard as to what should I do to help her and get my same old girlfriend back. Reply to this Question
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reader, the_used +, writes (21 November 2005):
Same exact thing happened to me and i hurt everyday but i try to get over it as much as it hurts and if she goes out with someone else and it doesn't go good between them and she comes back to you say no however much it hurts she will do the same thing again
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2005): she could be upset with you about almost anything, i have been in a relationship for 2 years and i went into a stage where i did not talk at all to my boyfriend , and it was not becuase i was cheating or had fallen out of love with him its because he said hurtful things to me and did not even relise it,maybe have a little think about some of the things you have said to her b4 all this started, maybe its something you have said or done that has made her like this, you will need to ask her whats wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2005): She is -angry -not happy with you -and I don't love you anymore -can't be with you anymore -just want to be aloneand this has been going on since August. I dont care if you "stood by her" while she was donating a kidney to her long lost birth mother. That wont force her to be in love with ya. It time for you to go on a bender. Call up your buddies who dropped you because you were such a downer when you were pining after this disgusting raincloud of a girlfriend. Go out with them explore the world of slutty bar chicks with piercings for a couple of weeks. I think your story will gin up some action.
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reader, trixy +, writes (14 November 2005):
Ask her if she wants you to leave, if she says yes then leave. Sometimes you dont know what youve got till its gone, and she may regret what shes done. If she doesnt regret losing you, then maybe its for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005): Talk to her! Tell her how you truly feel, and why she's been so hostile to you for the last couple of days. Ask her whats wrong, and just try to comfort her even though she's been in a bad mood. She's probally upset about something and is trying to hold it inside. The only thing you can do is talk to her and try to see what the problem is and why she's being the way she is.
-Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005): She is seeing someone else. has been for a little while, she has 2yrs with you, wants to know if this new guy is going to be worth ending a 2yr time investment. give her space. dont call. dont write. dont make any contact. but, become good friends with several of her female friends, so when she does dump you, you can date her friends. that will burn her, especially if the relationshipends with the new guy, and youarestillwith one of her friends. PLUS- if you become friends with some of her friends, and they know she is cheating on you. they will feel guilty after a little while and tell youwhats going on.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (14 November 2005):
it is possible for people to just fall out of love. that may be all. however you do need to find out if there's another reason. talk to her calmly. tell her you will understand but that you would just like to know if there's another reason for behaviour
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