When I have sex with my bf..I always think of the person who sexually abused me when I was 13! What's wrong..why do I do this?
Q. Hi, I have a very serious and completely awful problem. Whenever I have sex with my boyfriend, I always have to think of someone else for me to..you know. If that wasn't bad enough, the person I always end up thinking of is someone who, when I was ...
A. 15 December 2006: I agree with the other answer. Obviously this event has been engraved onto your mind and you can't foget it. This is obviously how your brain deals with letting the emotions out. If you haven't already talked to someone then you really need to. This ... (read in full...)
Does he think I'm just an easy lay or does he really like me?
Q. i met a guy about five weeks ago on a night out, and we got on really well. he lives in another city so we emailed each other for a week, and then arranged to meet up at his the next weekend. even though i didn't really fancy him, we had a brilliant ...
A. 14 December 2006: If you feel as though you are going to be hurt then don't carry on. No one is worth having your heart broken. He sounds as if he likes all the girls he is around and so maybe you should try talking to him more. If you meet up again refuse to sleep ... (read in full...)
I want to date others but my I love my jealous, abusive bf too much. What should I do?
Q. hey i need help my bf hits me and he is always jealous and at skool i like this other guy we flirt alot and i want to go out with him but i cant cuz im with my bf but i tried breaking it off with my bf but i cant becuz i love him so much i just dont ...
A. 14 December 2006: You cannot love someone if they abuse you. Just leave your Bf for a bit and let things cool down. While you are on this "break" try and flirt with others and make yourself feel wanted. This will boost your confidence alot. When you want to get back ... (read in full...)
She's shy and always with her friends! So how do I approach her, to ask her out?
Q. i fancy this girl in MY year. she's really hard to talk to because she doesn't talk to boys and she's shy. also i asked her to the ball and she accepted but all her friends knew and next day they all work talkin about it when ever they saw me. she's ...
A. 14 December 2006: Try talking to her on msn. I found that msn is probably the best thing around for relationships and starting them off. Start talking to her subtley and then when you have engaged her into the conversation try to turn things to relatioships. While ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to talk about sex with me?
Q. my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me about sex at all and he gets very uncomfortable when I ask him any questions. I know he watches porn but he doesn't want to talk about this either. how can i get him to open up?...
A. 13 December 2006: Invite this boy round and get him into a quiet room. Then get him in the right mood and I am sure he will open up. I have had experience with this so I should know. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do... I like my ex but he has a new girlfriend!
Q. so...i know it sounds kind of pathetic, but i' ve liked this guy since 6th grade until 8th. right now im in 8th grade. we went out in 6th grade and then i dumped him because i have this thing that everytime i really like this person, i go out with ...
A. 13 December 2006: If you really love him then you should wait until he has finished with his other girlfriend. He is bound to finish with this other girl at some point. If you hold back for a while and his love towards this other girl progresses then then try and ... (read in full...)
We're both 13 and we've had protected sex. I'm scared of pregnancy and STD's though. Any advice?
Q. im 13 should i have protected sex with my bf and we both luv each other i mean its been 3 months he is 13 and we r both ready for anything im just scared ill get pregnant or will get stds...
A. 13 December 2006: I know a couple of people at your age that have had sex, there is no need to be scared. As long as you trust him then you will be O.k. My friends were O.K. with it. If you would like to carry on then you should and if things ever get out of hand ... (read in full...)
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