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writes: I am dating a Hungarian man. I am not hungarian. He says l am his girlfriend but we haven't actually gone on a date that he has initiated. We have only really got together for sex. He has no time for dates but says he loves me. How can l get him to date me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2015): Getting a guy to date you when he already gets sex is very very difficult, if not impossible. Do not listen to what he says ( that he loves you, you are his gf), watch his actions which treats you like a freind with benefits. Please forgive me and correct me if I get the situation wrong.
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reader, Midnight Shadow +, writes (10 February 2015):
He loves the sex. You're not dating. He doesn't love you. Why would he have time for dates of you're having sex with him without them?
Put simply, he won't date you at all if you keep having sex with him. If you stop having sex, he may date you to get sex, or just walk away. If he dates you and you hold off on sex for 3 months, maybe he'll start to have feelings for you, not just your nether-regions....
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