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*reciousOne
writes:I am a high school student. i am 16 and my boyfriend is also 16. i have been with him since oct.23.08. it's been about 6 months.I truly do believe i am in love with him. I also belive he is too. he says it. he shows it. and i fall for it. he can be a jerk ,but all guys are. We have been through alot of arguments to just cuddling. he has cried for me the day we broke up[ i saw it myself].(the reason i brke up w/him was because he was flirting and he already cheated before)he has changed and became a man rather than a boy. He has proven me he can change from being a hoe/player to a commited man. We have even talked about a future together, life after high school, and the conditons to stay together and none involve having sex. We both have very freaky minds we also fantasize and share it. im a virgen and he isn't There has been times where we almost had sex, but everytime he stops and asks me "are you sure you want to this?" and i always had said "no, im scared to get pregnat" and he says "okay, baby...maybe next time." lately i been in the "mood" and i told him and he said "remember our love comes first." than he said "sex is good but im scared that we won't be in love anymore, it'll just be about the sex. I don't want you to be addicted, this has happened to me and one of my ex's before." "Don't get me wrong i want to so bad ,but i don't know" and than we talk about where we want it, the spots we want it, and etc. so now i believe im ready to have sex with him. So should i have sex?
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reader, audie  +, writes (13 May 2009):
 if you trully believe you r ready then by all means but i would advise you hold off on sex a little longer. sounds like he really respects you and thats a good thing just make sure that he still does after you have sex. more importantly you need to be sure you wont regret it or lose respect for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Wait. It is worth it. I was in your situation once and at the same age. I did it. I am still with him, and he and I lost it together. However, in my youth between us(my boyfriend and I) it lead to alot of it and although I didn't mind some times other times I felt used. As young women (even though we are more sexually driven at that age than when we hit 30), guys are like double that! Therefore, I am warning you don't(for sure we can certainly satisfy them, all we have to do is sit back and enjoy) at least wait til 20, emotionally you will become more stable and you will enjoy your relationship alot more. He'll love you no matter what you decide. I'm 21 and I went through many days wondering if he just wanted my body and if he lost sight of who I truly am.
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