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anonymous
writes:Hey.well, it's been like 2 1/2 years since i had a relationship.I want to get back out there. I am ready, it's just, with the guys i've liked, it never works out.Like 2 summers ago, one guy was too far away, this summer, i lost interest in him after a while, then I liked this guy for like 2 weeks and we were the complete opposite, and now I like someone who seems too boring, but i wanna give him a chance, because who knows? he may surprise me.With the guy i like now, he says things like "school's for losers" and that kind of turned me off, and he's someone who got left back!I know theres a guy out there for me, it's just I want someone who is equally extrordinary to me, someone who's completely amazing. I just feel bummed that i haven't found him yet. :[Well, i don't know, maybe the problem is, i met all of those guys on myspace. :P Should i try meeting guy outside the internet?
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (28 October 2007):
 Hi Anon.
You seem to be having a bad time of things at the moment, not to worry thou things will soon change, i believe even thou the net is a wonderful tool, and is great for meeting and making new friends, it is not really the place to meet boys, I now before all the letters start rolling in, some relationships do work, when you meet on the net, you are meeting the wrong type of people because you are not meeting then under a relaxed and social condition, you need to be out there babe, so that you can see what the people are like in real life, see their body language, see how they react with other people, but mainly to see how they interact with you, on a computer it is really easy to fool people into believing your some thing that your not.
so get out there babe do not go looking for a guy, go out and enjoy yourself, have fun and before you now it some one will come up to you who really likes you and you will be amazed or even you may spot the right guy yourself.
what ever you decide to do have fun first.
hope this helps you.
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reader, rcn +, writes (28 October 2007):
 OK you want someone like you. I find girls hold high expectations many times when looking for guys.
Do you by any chance own a copy of the movie "Greese"? There are so many "chick" flicks on the market, and it's hard sometimes for young ladies to understand life is not scripted. Your outcome with any guy is not written where you can view forward and find out what will or will not happen. Men don't come with instruction booklets, and most men wish women did as well.
Myspace and internet are not a place to meet guys. How do you get to determine who they really are over the computer. Have you seen the new video, "on-line" by Brad Paisley. If not, it really is a funny video about having your regular identity, then your computer identity.
You said your amazing, which tells me you must have many interests. If you want to meet guys that are amazing as well, join clubs and take part in activities that are in line with your interests.
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 October 2007):
 Personally i don't think the web is the best place to meet people, i know alot of people do now, but in reality you never really know who is on the other end of that keyboard. Maybe change your social setting, what are you into?. have you got any hobbies?. Do an evening class after school, go to the gym, with these sort of things at least you share something in common with people you meet. Just don't be in to much of a rush to meet a guy, you are still only young. The right guy is surely out there for you, and you will most likely meet him when you very least expect it.
take care x
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