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anonymous
writes: I want to know how would I know if someone loves me? I broke from my fiance a year ago and now I see him regularly but each time he sees me he just runs away. we were on bad terms when we broke but now I have feelings for him and I want to know if he loves me or not. How would I know as we never talk?
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (17 July 2007):
I would say that the fact that he runs everytime he sees you means he does not care for you. How and why would you be developing 'feelings' for a man that you are not talking to or spending time with? I think you are fantasizing and building him up in your head, but dealing with reality. But, as been there done it says, the only way to know for sure is to ask him.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (17 July 2007):
Hi there babes,
The only thing you can do to really know for sure is to talk to him, tell him your sorry you both split on bad terms but thats the past now....
Let him know that your feelings for him are growing but you don't want to be hurt and would like him to be open and honest with you....
I am sure he may feel the same way as you do and keeps running incase things go wrong again....
If he doesn't feel the same then you haven't lost anything really except theat you know for sure and then you can carry on with your life with or without him in it.....
I hope this works out for you darling , good luck
Love Donna xx
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