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writes:[OP original title]Hi..ok so I have a problem that I really don't know what to do about. I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months and we are very happy. There is a problem with his ex girlfriend however. They were together for about 5 years from the ages of 15 to 20 and have been broken up for approximately 2 and a half years. He ended the relationship because he says they simply outgrew eachother and things weren't working anymore. However, she turned strange about 8 months into the breakup..she threatened to kill herself if he didn't talk to her, she would harass him constantly and park outside his house in the middle of the night. He eventually had to speak to her dad and threaten a retraining order and she backed off significantly.However, since I got with him she has been acting so bad. On a night out about 4 months into the relationship, she threw drinks at me, slapped me, and verbally abused me. I let it go because she did the same things to his girlfriend after her and before me. She began to text him again however, and he ignored her, so she stopped. A few nights ago however, she saw me out and she made some rude comments, which I ignored. Then her and her friend started hassling me which I also ignored. Then her older sister got involved and things blew up because my boyfriend and his friends stepped in and flipped with them all. My boyfriend is so angry because this has been going on for years now and it upsets him to see it happen to me.Can someone PLEASE advise me on how to end this hassle? Ignoring this girl and her friends is absolutely not working..it is simply making them feel like they can keep doing what they are doing because they do not get in trouble for it. Please help me, it's upsetting me so much! xxx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 July 2010):
Your boyfriend needs to take control of this, and if he needs to get a restraining order against her, that what he needs to do. Restraining order time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): This girl obviously has some issues. What I would suggest is try to talk to her, or ask your boyfriend to talk to her. If she doesn't listen, or stops for awhile but begins to harrass you again, call the police, get a restraining order, something. What she's doing isn't right, and it seems like she needs a bit of mental help.
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