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writes:So I had this good good friend a while back me and her and I were extremely close, about a week and half ago I decided to write her a myspace message during which I looked up her status and moods, I found out she was pregnant which was a shocker so I left her a message saying I wished her the best and good luck, stuff like that, we broke and ended our relationship on various terms. Lying... backstabbing. I was hurt when we stopped talking I wasn't the only one, so was she. Well heres the deal the whole day I had such a strange feeling, night came around, eight she comes through where I used to live and to my surprise I see her walking towards me with tears, wanting to patch things up and start fresh. I refused she is the worst kind of person you can deal with she is a compulsive liar, delusional and very jealous. She said she was 7 weeks pregnant and he baby daddy don't help her out, he couldn't care less and wait, get this she is only 18 she has cancer?!?!? I looked at her with a serious look and asked what kind of cancer, she had she didn't know how to reply she just said she had ancer and pregnant and that everything seems like it's going down and that she missed me so much and that she wished things hadn't had ended the way they did.. I just listened, she said that her babys daddy didn't want to go with her to the ultrasounds and that she doesn't want to go alone then she pulled the puppy eyes on me all I had to say well oh.. that really sucks. I told her I was going through a hard time myself and well that it was good seeing her again... So this is how ima call her gloria... gloria is very sick in the head jerry springer type.. If she sees you happy she will lie and break you down, my bf was in the car listening to music she asked oh is that your bf I was like egh yeah the dummy that stayed with a bi*ch like me she said oh she game a glare... Point is I'm scared of having her involved in life it seems like... She wants something more.. Like she always has... So how can I cut her off my life...???
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 I'm going to start off by saying that people probably have read this and thought you were terrible but I'm not one of them. I have/had a friend who was a compusive liar as well. Her stories were more like "I totaled another of her families cars today but she's still fine and her being my friend telling my now gf not to date me because I'm a terrible person and we've now been happily together for a year now. So I see where you're coming from and that you just can't beleive whet she is saying and don't want to have to deal with it anymore.
If she calls you don't talk to her or reply to her messages. If you see her call her out on being a compulsive liar and say that you don't want to deal with that drama anymore. She should get the hint and leave you alone. Maybe suggest some counciling for this girl because the lying is a serious problem.
Hope this helps and everything works out for you.
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