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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Ok this is what's going on thank you for helping..I don't know even where to begin, so here at facts she likes me I am female too, she baited me to tell her I liked her - I never did - I started dating a coworker Man she stopped talking to me then to creating problems between us.She even tried to make me choose between them both... (she's married) I felt bad tried to remain distant friends then I relized she trained me all wrong at work- (lucky I did not get fired. (which was really hard for me to accept). It hurt.I tried to be her friend again not close but just HI and Bye type thing... Well last night she tranfard a call to my boyfriend- saying (acting like she had it all took care of it shes cst srv's) he provides a new part # and dials cst srv luckly got me. It turns out - I sent out a prepaid shipping label for this cst - and he was wanting the new item ( she had advanced out at a later date) she went into my prepaid label info- and messed it all up to where it would have got me in trouble - it only showed her name and not date she put it in - so it would have look like -I screwed up, I emailed him saying I changed to CT at work and when we got home - I tried to explain it to him - he said he understood- then said I should have just went back to her to waive the fee- ** I was like what if you would have ** I would not have caught her messing up the tag** then he goes I know I understand.. I explained it at least 3 times so he understood why it would like like I screwed up -he was mad b/c he thought I was mad at him- I kept saying Im not mad at you- we went to bed mad.. This morning We started fighting again - b/c he sayes he understands but twice said I should have placed it back w/her.. Hello..(now I am starting to think..) So knowing he probably is not relizing what he said - I said next time she calls would you em me so I can look to see if it's done correctly.. He goes I can't see in there to know that- ( which is true - but* i am not asking him to due that all I am asking is him to due is txt me inv name so I can look in there b/c I have access -to do that - he dont... He goes I can't do that evertime she calls- or everytime someone calls - how do you know this is not done w some one else, I said I am sure it's been done - but I would be upset if I seen your name attached to the new order and it went down as it almost did.. He goes you don't trust me - I said after all this yes I would be - b/c we know what she attempted to do.. I said if this was reversed you would want the same - he goes I did not say I would not do it.. I said yes but you also said the things above he goes I never said I would not.. I guess I am pissed off b/c if he would even make a suggestion on this I would w/out all the excuses.. I am not sure if he knows what he is saying or he does.. He acted like I was in the wrong for having him do this... Am I?What should I do about her?
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reader, honey_1234 +, writes (10 April 2010):
 First of all you are not at all in the wrong for asing him to do that he should be helping you and I'm kind of appalled that he isnt and secondly I would go to someone with a higher authority than you and make sure you take evidence if you have any and and show them her actions and if that dont work go to the Better Buisness Beaureu. good luck
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