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writes:Hello,So I was curious about how to get a guys attention. I want this guy to view me in a different light, and I need help on how I should act. I'm not looking to change my personality, just tips to get him interested. So this guy, let's call him Bob, is a "player" I guess. He has many, many girlfriends, and often has girls at his beck and call. He's the type of guy who chooses his girl, rather than his girl choosing him. I know him a little well, but not very well. He's always come to me when he wants something sexual, be it pictures, or going to his, and I want him to see me as girlfriend material, not an easy girl (because truth be told, I'm not, he can reduce me to mush, though). I know that in doing what he asks, he'll never see me as anything other than that, but I'm curious as to HOW I should react to his requests. He's told me he likes the shy type of girl, you know, the innocent one. Believe me, that's me, but when I talk to him, I have this odd reaction to him where I appear as loud and outgoing, whennim truly not. How can I show him that I'm not the loud, easy-to-get-with girl? Thanks for your time!
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 The harder you are to get, the harder ge will laugh about it after he "gets" you....
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 March 2011):
 Why are you asking to get yourself hurt? He'll use you and dump you. Players are good at acting sweet, but it's all lies to get you into bed with them.
Ignore him. He's only interested in you as long as he thinks he's going to get what he wants. He WILL hurt you.
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reader, NadgerBadger  +, writes (18 March 2011):
Hey :)
Really stupid question, but if this guy is the "player" type, why do you like him? Guys like this rarely change, and he sounds like the type of guy who'd prefer to have one night stands, rather than settle down. You sound like you can do so much better. I hope this helps!
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