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*lackdhalla1993
writes:theres this girl that ive known for only two months, and she's used to date guys who are the "bad boys" per-say, and i am a guy who likes death and black metal and is a musician, she knows that i like her but she told me that i'm not her type, her type is guys that do drugs and have muscles. what should i do to become her type? although i smoke and drink, what else should i do? i even wrote a song for her, soo what is my best bet?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 She sounds like a real good catch!
Not.
You can only be a bad boy if its already in you. You cant make yourself one. Women that like bad boys can sniff them out a mile away, there isn't a way to transform into one.
Bad boys are troubled boys anyway, you want to be happy in life dont you?
Bad boys aren't very happy.
Stay as you are and go for a girl that isn't into drugs and shortening her lifespan.
C xxxxxx
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reader, starismine1 +, writes (28 August 2008):
 A "bad boy" for most girls are guys who sleep with lots of womenand have addictive personalities. So in order for you to be a bad boy, you would have to be an alcoholic, a drug addict, get arrested, break the law by speeding, and have alot of one night stands with girls. But I sense you are intelligent and have alot to offer a girl, so believe in yourself. You deserve a really cool girl who thinks you are cool for just being the you that you are now. And here's another secret thing about bad boys and the girls that are attracted to them: most of them are mommies boys that have controlling parents and dependent personalities and they are really weak and helpless on the inside (they just give that tough persona on the outside). Girls who are attracted to them are attracted to them because they have a father with a dependency personality as well. So consider yourself fortunate not to be one and find someone who doesn't need to be with one to feel good about herself and her life.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 It's quite likely that this girl was just trying to let you down gently. Even if you change your image, you will still be the same person, and if she's not interested, then there's nothing you can do about that.
Don't change who you are for this girl. If you change yourself for her, then you'll have to keep on pretending, and that's neevr fun. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then let it go and find someone who does.
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