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writes:I have always really been into sex have a high drive I guess. Have been in loving committed relationship for years now and the sex just not enough. Is there any real hope? We have talked but nothing changes... just reamins the same me pining for more. Really starting to get me depressed.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 Hmmm. I don't really have much to advise on this one. Just some suggestions.
Talk with your doctor, maybe your hormones are going too strong?
Consider what it is that you're pining for in your perceived lack of an adequate amount of sex. Is it quality? Quantity? More orgasms for you? More orgasms for her? Physical closeness? Emotional intimacy?
Identify the gap, what it is you're missing, then you can work from there. If you answer that you're just missing sex, then you haven't thought about it enough.
How much is too much? Are you wanting it 5 times a day? What role does masturbation now play?
Obviously, you perceive it as a problem, so you need to be the one who works on the solution, with her help.
Good luck!
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (28 August 2008):
 Have you tried toys? or more foreplay?
A good vibrator would make your day, trust me.
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