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writes:I'm tired of having my crush ignore me a lot of the time. So, instead, I am considering asking him out, but considering I'm only 13 and never had a boyfriend before, I'm really unsure as to the best way to ask him without scaring him.Any advice? x
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 okay,the first thing u could do is this little trick of mine.
1 just look out for him. if u see him often,it is proberly not a coincidence! sometimes,guys are even more nervous than u and look at u frm afar.
2 dun worry about scaring him yaknow, a chiobu(chinese dialect for hot) girl like u would be that guys dream.
3 i dunno about others , but moi advise is to go for it! take a deep breath(remember to breath out!) and just walk up (aproching frm behind would add a surprising touch)and say "hi there (insert guy's name)!" while he's starring at u dumb struck, throw in a "i think you r cute" "wanna go out sometime?" a one-two punch like that will leave him stuttering for a while before answering "yeah, why not"
go for it gal, u rock
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reader, go4jess  +, writes (18 November 2008):
Be yourself act like he is your old friend. But do get straight to the point. Don't take too long to ask him. You might lose your courage. I'm only 10 and I have never had a boyfriend either. One of the best things you can do is not blush.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (15 November 2008):
just go up to him when you see him on his own. if his friends are there it could be awkward for him and you. just say something like i'd like to get to know you better and i like you, so would you like to go to the cinema or something? then just wait and see where it goes from there. if he likes you he will prob say yes, if he don't..well at least you have gained a little more confidence in asking guys out.
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reader, BigSis +, writes (15 November 2008):
 Well my sweet, first of all do not approach him wearing a 'Scream' mask, that'll definitely scare him!LoL!!No, sorry, but seriously now...just do it, take a deep breath, and go for it, like the previous Anon poster suggests - ask him if he fancies going to the cinema with you. Use the excuse that you want to go and see a particular movie, but don't want to go on your own.You have nothing to lose really have you? At least you'll know where you stand, If he rejects you, then you can move on, if he accepts - well then it's a bonus - and a start.Good luck and let us know how you got on.BigSisxXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): be yourself !:)
ask him does he fancy going to the cinema..then arrange to go a walk afterwords
be funny, flirt and chat away then ask does he fancy meeting up sometime after school for a coffee then casually ask where things are heading with you two:)
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