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male
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writes:I'm not too sure where to start so, basically I've been seeing this girl for over two weeks now. We get on like a house on fire it's unreal, we have so much in common, always make each other laugh and always have fun. I haven't had a relationship in years (since I was last in school). My issue is that I'd like to see if she'd like to be my girlfriend, she clearly likes me I'm just not sure how much. We are currently more than "friends" we hold hands, kiss, etc, etc. I'm unsure on how to approach asking her! I remember in school you could just ask a girl "would you go out with me?" or "would you be my girlfriend?". I feel this may be a little childish as I'm 22. Any suggestions on how to approach this situation regarding timing, words to say etc would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for all those who help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2016): My boyf just said I like you, I don't want to date anyone else. I want you to be my girlfriend. I said the same. We agreed not to date other people and be exclusive. That's it.I think some things do need to be said its nice to know where you stand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2016): Just say this ..
I find you amazing and our time together amazing ..Make it light hearted laugh a little and add I'm actually considering making you my significant other .. what would you say .. hmm .. If it's a no you don't get .. whatever chocolate you have in your pocket for her haha
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (12 August 2016):
 What more do you think you should be doing to make you think you are actually in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with this girl? You spend time together, you hold hands, you kiss . . . Am I missing something? You are already in a bf/gf relationship.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (12 August 2016):
 You don't actually have to ask. If you like each other you continue seeking each other's company. You show affection for each other, and you make a few plans to do things you both might enjoy. The only big question is on marriage, and fewer people are taking that route these days.
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