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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: hello! i am in a long distance relationship for last one year,we have spent such a beautiful time in last one year.We share everything, recently my girlfriend told me that she is attracted towards one of his co worker;she explains that there is nothing special between but she misses him when he is away .She is also nice to me ,she cares but now i feel that how i convince her not to pay attention towards him specially at a time when we are going to meet within few months. Having doubts what should i do??? this is first ever relationship of my life , i really love her and don't want to loose her and also it is a fact that i cant accept that her attention is divided .... what should i do ?????? help please
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (13 August 2016):
She can't change how she feels. She misses him. You don't feel comfortable with that.
How much do you talk? Do you video chat?
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female
reader, miss frank +, writes (13 August 2016):
Especially as you are due to meet in a couple of months? Does this mean you haven't met at all yet ? If that is this case my friend, you don't have a relationship in a sense that you might think I'm afraid- exactly what are your plans to be together? How often will you be meeting and spending time together ? What are these lovely times you've had?
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reader, Denizen +, writes (12 August 2016):
Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain. Are you sure you have a relationship and not just a pen-friend? If the later is the case I suggest you find a flesh and blood girl in you neighbourhood, providing you can get parental approval.
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