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writes:THIS IS LONG-ISH SO TO THOSE OF YOU THAT TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS I REALLY APPRECIATE IT, THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!!!!! Grr okay guys this is kind of an angry post, so I'm sorry to send bad vibes your way *insert sad face here* ugh..Three months (which seems more like three years) ago my EX-boyfriend ended the relationship for the SECOND time for no real reason he just likes to jump from girl to girl then come crawling back to me.Yes - I was stupid enough to take him back the second time.No - I will not ever do it again.Anyway I love this guy and I mean REALLY love him but there's a fine line between love and hate and I cross that line like a billion times a day..I hate him so much its a shame the love over powers that.Anyway I was literally thinking two days ago - 'Right it's time to move on and let him go I cant spend my time pining over him etc...' I cut all contact with him then a day later (yesterday) he sent a friend of mine a message as he couldnt get in contact with me and he said..."Ask her if there is a reason she deleted me and if she is just going to carry on ignoring my existance forever?"So instead of getting my friend to reply basically telling him that I deleted him because I couldnt deal with him anymore.I was wondering why after three months he decided to get in contact...Anyway today I find he just got into a relationship with someone literally got with her today and its not a rumour I know it for a fact.Why did he get in touch with me then??Thanks for reading I know its quite a long question.xxx
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (12 April 2010):
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Hello, why is he in touch, because he thinks that you will take him back and he can get his leg over with you.
Tell him once and for al to F--- Off I think you are there free of him almost. Please do not agonise over what does he mean this time, it just does not matter anyway.
You are finished - look in the mirroe - see your wow factor, look at your figure - pretty good, go out find someone else - today could be just the right day???
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): I agree with everyone who has said he just wants a booty call. and if not, he just wants to have control. I'm sure he knows you love him to hell, that's why he will feed off that.
That's his reason why.
In the end though, whatever his reasons were, you should pay no attention to it. You want to move on and part of moving on is ignoring every stupid signal he is going to send your way. Why do you care that he asked about you? To be honest, the way you described your ex, I thought it be obvious that whatever his intentions were , they weren't any good ones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): He wants sex/romance/affection with you because of the way you make him feel. But he also wants it with other girls for the same reason. If you demand exclusivity in your relationships, this is not the guy for you. If, on the other hand, the two of you can be on the same page and make each other feel good despite this particular characteristic of his, then everyone may end up happy.
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reader, xXxLisxXx  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 most likely,
and i know this is NOT what you wanted to hear,
he connected with you, because he wanted, yes, im very sorry, in your pants. its just the way guys are. they are stupid moronic idiots and they dont see whats good for them.
you should move on, and when he sees that you really were there for him and that you loved him so deeply, he'll come crawling back. now the question for you is, will there be anything for him to beg for?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 April 2010):
He got into contact because you had moved on. This is a guy who likes to have control, who likes to toy with your emotions. Men like him stroke their egos and feel good by playing with women around them and getting their attention. By blocking him out, he can't get your attention, and you have taken away his power. So good for you. That's the only reason he got in contact. And yes, forever you can ignore him so don't worry about what he says or anything like that. You're making the right decision.
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