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writes:I'm in love with a woman and I'm always expressing my feelings to her. we have been together in a relationship for 1 1/2 years now. i go to sleep with her on my mind and wake up excited that i will see her again like i see her every day. i think she is so beautiful, every part of her body and just the way she is. i adore her and love her so much ad she makes my day start out so wonderful when i first see her. I express my love and feelings for her everyday. But I'm not sure she feels the same way about me because she doesn't express her feelings to me. The only time she says she loves me, if i ask her that question.How am i supposed to know if she truly loves me if it never comes from her with out me asking her that question (Do you Love me?)? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): Dear Poster
Some people are just less verbal then others; there is an old saying: "Action speaks louder then words";
Is there anything in her behaviour towards you that makes you doubt her love? Or is it merely the fact that she does not verbalize her feelings?
She might think, that you do know, how much she loves you and not realize how important it is for you to hear the actual words; I suggest you tell her how great and wonderfull it sounds to you, when you hear those words from her mouth; tell her it is like "music" to your ears; tell her that you love hearing it and how important it is for you to hear those words;
If her behaviour towards you are cold and not loving; THEN I think you need to reconsider the relationship.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, Fairy Godmother  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Loving someone is as much about what you do as what you say. It's lovely to hear someone tell you they love you but the words are meaningless if they're not backed up by loving actions.
Does she show her love for you? Does she listen to you, care for you, cherish you? If she is doing all the right things but not saying the words, perhaps she just finds the words hard to say.
If she isn't doing the right things or saying the words, you need to give your relationship some thought.
Good luck!
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