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writes: heyamy ex boyfriend dumped me a few weeks ago but i still really like him.i really really want to get over him. the thing is, i dont know how!how do i get over him when i have liked him for so long? i have fancied him for 2 years now. we went out for 6 months but it didnt work.how do you get over someone? Reply to this Question
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reader, lboy  +, writes (11 May 2006):
 it's not always easy to get over someone and the only way i know how to get over someone is to get out there and try to meet someone else that you are better suited to, for all you know you might already know your true love, you just don't know who it is yet.
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reader, Ainley +, writes (11 May 2006):
 hay dare i really feel your pain as does so many other woman out darling. I could tell you the usual lardy da but dare really isn't much you can do except let yourself cry don't feel bad for it's part of the process of healing and make sure you get your friends together and go out places have fun well as much as you can at this time. it's good to have alone time too, but please promise me you'll leave him be because it wont do you any good degrading yourself you need to show him that your ok with the split because if you were friends before you went out as well when you were then hes probably hurting from hurting you, im not saying make him feel better im saying it'll ease the process and trust me youll feel good about it and im guessing you've probably got same friends or grown close to eachothers friends so most of all itll ease things for them they wont feel they need to take sides as much. things will get easier over time so get out there and well strut your stuff!
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (11 May 2006):
 Look you need to just move on...break away...its the hardest thing to do but the only thing to do! Forget about any notion of hope you have of getting back with him otherwise you will be still holding on! you don't wanna hold on for someone who mightn't come around! Move on, find a new love and you will be fine! Think of all the things you dislike about him, that's another way! Its so easy just to remember the good things about a person when its all over!
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