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writes: iv fallen for a guy but,he has a girlfriend of 8 years!we have known each other for about 3months and we had instant chemistry. he was honest with me from the start and is always sayin he doesnt want me to get hurt.i think its to late for that.im starting to think about him all the time,yet know i carnt have him..and he isnt goin to split up with his girlfriend.hes nothing but nice if im there with him or not and doesnt just meet me for sex.we talk everyday even though sometimes its hard.we will always be friends i know that,hes told me but what should i do now while we are seeing each other?i carnt stop thinking about his girl..(which i dont know)but what if it was me?..please help...sj.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (18 May 2006):
 I don't feel sorry for you. You're really making your own problems. Actually you should be ashamed for sticking your nose where it doesn't belong. Sorry to be so blunt but some things are so obvious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2006): Get yourself a man of your own. His girlfriend doesn't deserve to cry over you and you don't deserve to be second best. This man is just bored and looking around, if he's going to cheat don't let it be with you. I promise you he'll go back to her once she finds out and they'll make up and he'll have to tell her every thing you two shared because that's what she will want. He will betray her then you to save himself.
The feelings you have for him are real but they will fade away if you stop feeding them. protect yourself from hurt and do his long term girlfriend a good turn, get away from him.
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reader, Auntie Angie +, writes (18 May 2006):
Look Im sorry but u do have to try and forget him as he has explained that he wont finish her. It might be easiest if at the moment you do spend some time a part, i dont mean permantly but you need time to distant yourself. try going out with some different people as there a LOT of nice single guys as well. I agree with lostandalone as he has cheated on his long time gf he probably isnt that nice.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (18 May 2006):
 All I can say is this put yourself in her shoes. Obviously nothing will come from this relationship but hurt on your end. If he does leave his girlfriend for you what makes you think that you won't be the next one he cheats on. How many girls has he cheated on his gf with. Though nice he is a wolf in sheeps clothing. BEWARE!!!
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