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female
age
36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:Is this guy worth my time?This guy i like and have known for over a year can be described like this. He is very smart and mysterious, but has a charm about him. Last summer, he broke up with his girlfriend and then started seeing me. All the time, he was talking with another girl. Come christmas, I was pushed to the side as he had sex with another girl all while lying to me saying she was just a friend and making out with other random girls.Now this summer, he has been off and on ignoring me and this girl at work now claims to be dating him. His hands are all over her and he follows her like a lost puppy. Im not sure if he even wants it to last cause he's leaving in a week and she's moving away.What is with this guy and is he worth my time?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (5 August 2008):
 Hi there,
you have a problem my dear. There are plenty of girls out there like you and they end up having miserable relationships, the reason is simple: they are attracted to men who treat them poorly.
You know this man is not worth the effort, you have written in here after all , and you know the replies you are going to get, but somehow I think you know if he called you up in 5 mins you would go running to him.
The only advice I can offer is to try and focus on what it is about yourself that allows you to find men who cheat and lie attractive. This lad has treated you like dirt, yet you cannot wait for him to throw you a lifeline. Until you accept that you are a doormat waiting for the next a-hole to start stomping all over, you will continue to attract these type of men. After all, every player out there always has a girl on his arm - but for every girl who strings along with these guys, there are plenty of girls who tell them they are creeps and to bugger off.
You are obviously a loyal girlfriend in your own right, you never know you may just wake up one day and start thinking that to expect the same in your next boyfriend isnt as crazy as it sounds.
Good luck.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): Girl, why are you still putting up with him? You need to send him packing, and fast! There are so many nice guys out there so you definately don't need to be wasting your time on this player. It's never gonna get serious, you know this, right?
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