A
female
age
41-50,
*litterbugem
writes:Hi, my partner and I have been going out for 2 1/2 years we have a wee baby together. He has a 9 year old son with his ex wife, she has been causing un-necessary trouble since we started dating. When I came on the scene the ex wife was seeing someone as they had been seperated for a few years, they are now divorced. She initially tried to steal her ex husband from me, suggested they get married again. Constantly stops my partner from seeing their son for no reason. Called the social Services on us suggesting our wee baby was at risk. But he isn't. Contacted the csa for badness even though she was getting weekly maintenance payments for a few years.My partners parents cant see anything she does wrong its so frustrating. To be honest two years of her crazy shit is beginning to take it's toll on me i cant take it anymore and don't know wether to just call it a day on my relatiinship with my partner. She's ruining everything. He has been to a lawyer got contact for a few weeks and she quit contact again. She dictates to my partner now that he can come round through the day at the weekend but my partner has to work! How can someone be so nasty? I can't put up with this crap for another 7 years. Anyone advice would be great thanks. :-(
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reader, AuntieSnap +, writes (10 November 2010):
Hi there,
What a horrible witch she is to use the wee lad as a bargaining chip. And to conact Social Services maliciously, what mother could do that! Your partner has been granted access, she cannot stop that unless she feels she has a good reason and only then it would have to go to court. If she is being difficult then perhaps arrange with a family member or even someone from Social Services to pick up and drop the lad at your home for visits and that way your partner does not need to have the stress of dealing with her. She sounds a right vindictive bitch-in-the-manger, she doesnt really want him but she doesnt want you to have him either so that is why she is causing so much trouble. Your partners parents are keeping in with her because of their grandson, she probably threatened to stop contact with them also. It will be a stressful time for you all but if you give up now she will have won. Dont let her.
I really hope everything works out for your family. Hang in there doll.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 November 2010):
Your boyfriend needs to take this up with the court. If he can get a statement from the social services, and a statement from the CSA proving that they've been contacted maliciously, then the court can do something. Your boyfriend really needs to step up and start kicking some ass here. She contacted social services maliciously, she won't let him see his son (get all this on tape and recorded), and she has complained to the CSA. Your boyfriend needs to get all this proof and kick some serious ass.
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