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female
age
36-40,
*atali
writes:Hi.. I don't know what to do...I am married with a man which I love..But he have his ex wife and 3 kids..We are happy, kids are coming to us he is going to see them everything is good..Next week is his birthday... ex wife call him and she says they are making Party in his birthday with some friends.. But I have prepared a surprise for his birthday and I have invited friends... he doesn't know about this as it was a surprise.Today he is telling me, he will spend his birthday with them....Really I'm very upset about this: she is more important than me in his life....I am feeling bad...
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reader, natali +, writes (6 October 2008):
natali is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi..thanks for your answer..
But he is not upset with his ex...he is upset with me,some i do somthing wrong..We not talking alredy 2days...
Some im creating the problems..
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reader, natali +, writes (6 October 2008):
natali is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi.. Thanks for ypur replay..
I told him about that but he is talling me I must to have respect for his kids...
Hi dont want to understand me or my feelings..
Realy i dont know
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reader, quarky  +, writes (5 October 2008):
 Why is he spending time with his ex & friends and not with you? Tell him you wanted to go for a meal or something then spring the surprise. Sorry, but you and him need to stand up to the ex and make sure she doesn't bully him or you. You should come first. He should understand that, and so should his ex. My opinion only-seems like she's trying to usurp your marriage and it's not on! Explain how you feel about it wwithout spoiling the surprise. Best of luck
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