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writes:I am 17 and recently lost my virginity whilst drunk. I was nervous a lot before having sex but I finally got over it and did it with a random girl where I lasted about 45 mins. Since then I have recently got a girlfriend. The first two times I had sex with her I lasted quite a while (30 mins each) then the other day I had sex with her again a couple of times and came really quick both times. Now I'm really nervous again that I'm going to cum really quick. Although she was really fine about it and said she enjoyed it I'm still worried. Anyway I'm scared that this is going to be a problem, and therefore this situation will become worse.I can't figure out why I lasted so long the first three times and now I can only last about two minutes. What's happeneing? Has anybody else had this problem? How can I stop it?
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reader, anagha  +, writes (5 October 2008):
Sorry XD didn't add the second part. As far as trying to last longer I don't know, my husband has told me that he's been able to last longer when he wears condoms. I'm not sure if you wear condoms or not (which i hope you do) but if you don't, try it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): Don't worry about it! It's completely natural. My boyfriend is exactly the same; usually he lasts for a long time, but if we haven't seen each other for a while it can often happen very quickly. I don't mind at all; usually it's the result of him being very worked up so he has a quick recovery time. Second, or third, time round, he always lasts much longer. Perhaps you can try that with your girlfriend? Besides, I like the feeling that I turn him on that much, so it doesn't bother me at all. Don't stress about it.
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reader, anagha +, writes (5 October 2008):
The difference is the feeling you had those first few fimes, they were something very special and you were worried, but now, my guess is that now that your body and mind is used to the idea its not as afraid anymore. I hope this helped a little, I can't tell you how to last longer though, but I can ask you to be careful whenever you have sex, ok? Condom. Pregnacy scares are really no fun if they are unexpected.
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reader, penguin64 +, writes (5 October 2008):
 i think it helps if you have a bit of fun by yourself before hand....
dont start drinking loads tho just to last longer! my friend said he did that once.
to last longer you have to vary how fast you go if you know what i mean. fast then slow etc.
this is probably strange coming from a girl.
cant you just go again after you come?
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reader, anagha +, writes (5 October 2008):
The difference is the feeling you had those first few fimes, they were something very special and you were worried, but now, my guess is that now that your body and mind is used to the idea its not as afraid anymore.
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