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anonymous
writes:Hey!! How do MALE teachers feel when female students develop crushes on them and it becomes obvious and apparent? Do they find it frustrating, time consuming etc. I'm asking this because i have fallen in love with a teacher who taught me last year but left and during the course of that year he had girls running up to him shouting ....... fancies you and just before christmas he recieved a card made by my friends that was ment to be from me and was given it infront of all his fellow staff!!And when this was happening i always thought he hated me for it! How do you feel when a wide range of 1st years know about it and are constantly been told ... fancied you?So basically how do you/they feel when this happens? I would love to know! xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): I daresay amused. Maybe flattered. Sympathetic. Pitying.
And in the most extreme of cases (the ones people goto jail for) turned on.
I doubt he'd feel ill towards you. It's possible he wants to be sympathetc and kind about all of this and he may not have the slightest idea on how to handle the issue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): They probably have a really good laugh about it in the staff room, and the cards are probably stuck on a nail in the staff toilet.
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reader, quarky +, writes (5 October 2008):
 Hun they probably feel scared for their job, embarrased and a little annoyed. As part of their training teachers are advised how to handle such situations. But if it goes on for long enough, and it isn't resolved, they may haave no choice but to move on. Why annoyed? Not because of the unwarranted attention-more because they know that you should be out there enjoying life with people you're own age! Loads of people get crushes on teachers-it's sort of part of growing up I guess-and although teachers know that and are trained to deal with it-it still may come as a nasty surprise to them!
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