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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am totally in love with this boy, and have liked him since september 2006. We used to get on so well, and now he will not talk to me, unless he wants fags, money or a new song for his phone. He rings me all the time, but it is just for sex, even though we have not had sex before. We started seeing each other nearly 3 weeks ago, not even that long. His best friend says that if I was more touchy-feely then he would get on with me again, because we used to be really flirty before and I couldn't keep my hands off of him. I don't know what to do, I want things back to how they was before, I can't stop thinking about him and I always want to see him, but not for sex.Please HELP?
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (12 July 2007):
 Wow, I am a 30 year old woman and I dont even act like that with men. You are being USED. Your friendship will never be the same because that guy sees you as a person who will give him what he wants. You are giving this guy everything he wants. What is he giving you? Nothing probably. DO NOT TOUCH THAT BOY. All that is on his mind is sex. Sex is the greatest thing you can give a person YOU LOVE AND TRUST. Right now he wants you as his sex toy or slut and at your age that should not even be happening. Stop seeing him or talking to him on the phone. There is no more frienship. You are being used to get material things.
Love doesnt use a person for things. Love enjoys the person for who they are and their talents not just for your body or money. Have MORE self respect. Ditch the boy and his damned best friend. How dare they try to persuade you for sex. That isnt love thats them getting their laughs and making them thing you are so stupid in giving them this attention in this way. Stand up against them and say NO MORE. You will not be their sugar momma (someone who pays and gives things and the receiving person is just there to get the goods) and no longer be their friend. It's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): My dear, its very clear that this boy is using you and his interest in you is just for what he can get out of you (cigarettes, money, etc.)Unfortunately, things are not going to be the way they were before. You see, he will just keep on pressuring you for sex with the hope you'll eventually give in.You have to ask yourself if that is what you really want.Think about it: why do you want to be "totally in love" with a boy who is using you (or trying to) as a plaything and who really doesn't give a hoot about who you are as a person and what you might want or not wantI hope this will convince you to forget about him. He is not worthy of you!
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